Tolerance.

Hello there People of the Internet.
For quite a few months now I am thinking about tolerance, and the equality of men and women.


"I mean how does it come that Boys get bullied for being "weak". Because we think showing weakness is "girly". We think a Boy who is a virgin is sad. We think a guy who has a negative Body Image is "unmanly". We think Boys with girly interests are shameful. Because we think men who dress like women are jokes. We think men hurt by women are pathetic. Even Girls insult guys being "Sissy". Most insults towards men attack their masculinity. It is shameful for men being weak. Because it is shameful for men being weak like women. The same sexism that hurts women, also hurts men. Talking about one Groups issue doesn't mean that we are belittling another Group. Sexism is not "us vs. them", it is "us vs. our lack of mutual understandings". Because if we work together, we can end both women and men. Because listening to each other helps all of us."


To start of with the Problem that boys/men are not supposed to be "weak". But why is that this way? Just because of Sterotypes. I know some guys that Society might see as "weak", but actually they are way more manly than any other men. They might not have big musceles, but they are more manly than any other  man. They do have a brain and they even use it. And they know how to act. The same Thing also goes out for so many women that I know. They might like to go hunting and fishing, and are interested in cars, which are more men Kind stereotypes, but they are extremly classy and know how a women has to act. Or hold on I am now even using sterotypes. What I mean is that they know how to be a human. A "good" human.


Also what is wrong if there is a man/woman that feels like he/she should be Born as the opposite gender. Even if they Change their whole Body with surgerys or just dress like it. Why do you have to be judged by that? I dont think that it is fair. Even if you do not like it - Why do you have to say something against are even forbid it. It is their life and their Body. I do not see what is the Problem with that.


The worst Thing to me is insulting People as gay. I have to say sometimes I might do it too, but every knows I am not being serious. I have some gay friends and we talk alot about this. They even make this joke sometimes, they take care too that everyone knows they are not being realistic, and just joking around. And can I just stop and say that many gays are way more manly than "real men". Also not every woman is the same. It is just an pointlessinsult.


That is just  a small amount about what is Floating around in my head for way too long.
People must get that, and completly paste it in their minds : Understanding each other, to accept people as they are and stop sticking labels on everyone would surely lead -progressively- to tolerance. 

Talk to you soon.
Goodnight. Have a great day. Enjoy life.
Anne.